1. Dont scream. The tone of our voice is important. Use a confident and calm tone. Usually children do not hear the words and long phrases until the age of 12. 2. Do not use the belt for punishment or hand to hit the child. (You breaking the inner mind of child, if mother hitting me -than she don’t love me, if she don’t love me –than I don’t need to no one in this world). One parent kneels down to be at the height of the child. Hugs the child for a moment, speaks in a cal